Life is unpredictable and often very challenging. Each day we’re faced with obstacles that test our ability to cope well with difficulties. It’s easy to get angry, scared, or resentful and forget about gratitude for the good things in our life.
If we don’t cherish and feel grateful for the good things, how can we justify wanting more of them? Consider these easy gratitude practices when you need support in challenging times:
Random Acts of Kindness
- Include an act of kindness in your day. When we’re going through a stressful or difficult period in our life, we get so self-centered and focused on self-pity that we rarely stop to think about others. This is precisely why we need to break away from this negative mindset by doing something kind.
- Who is the most deserving of my simple act of kindness today? Who has shown me support and love lately? What can I do to honor their support and affection?
- By being kind and generous to others, you create a greater sense of connection that generates a more positive outlook on life. You feel better about yourself.
- Say thank you for the little things. During times when things don’t go your way and you feel like a victim of life, it can be extremely hard to feel grateful and notice things to be thankful for. Yet, there are plenty of small joys around you even on the most difficult of days. You can notice them by shifting the point of your focus.
- What kind of blessings have I received lately? How can I show my gratitude for those blessings? Is there someone who deserves a thank you note from me?
- Being able to say thank you for the small things helps you in shifting your focus from life’s challenges to life’s pleasures. This way, your mind expands and supports you in finding solutions and ways to get unstuck and move forward.
Review the Negative Thoughts
- Re-frame your negativity. Challenging times bring on lots of negativity. If you struggle for any reason, you will likely start to sabotage yourself by creating sadness, falling into despair, evoking regrets, and generating tons of unproductive negative thoughts.
- Changing your perspective is the best way to re-frame negativity. Remember that everything in life comes in the form of duality. Nothing is purely good or bad. Look at the goodness and benefits in your current struggles and try to learn from them.
- Negative thoughts only have the power to hurt you if you let them.
- Keep a gratitude journal. This is likely the most popular gratitude practice. It comes with a variety of benefits, including better quality sleep, increased immunity, greater levels of resilience, and improved mood. Being mindful of these these benefits will assist you as you navigate a tough time in life.
- To start a gratitude journal all you need is a few moments of undisturbed time, willingness to reflect, and a way to capture your thoughts (notebook, phone, laptop).
- You can start by reflecting on the following questions: What experiences in my life can I be grateful for? What happened lately that makes me feel thankful? Do I have opportunities today? What have the significant others in my life done that I am grateful for?
- Writing helps you to organize thoughts, process information and experiences, and supports you in accepting your challenging times by putting them in context.
Offer the others kindness
- Spread loving kindness. The practice of loving-kindness meditation is designed to emphasize the practitioner’s strength and capacity to feel unconditional gratitude.
- Besides opening your heart to appreciation, this tool is great for building lasting compassion towards yourself and others. Compassion is crucial if you’re looking to reduce stress and overcome obstacles in your life.
- Loving-kindness meditation serves as a tool for creating unconditional, inclusive love that leads to true wisdom. The love created this way has no conditions and it doesn’t need to be deserved in any way.
Everyone struggles, gets stuck, and experiences difficulty. Next time you find yourself having a tough time, remember that crisis is also a wonderful growth opportunity. Embrace the challenge, enrich it with gratitude, and you’ll experience genuine growth.
Originally published at https://denver-psychic.com on June 21, 2020.